Swapping swag boxes for saunas sessions with Steve Armenti | People are People | Ep. 05

Jul 28, 2026 · 31:06 · Podcast
Steve Armenti Founder & CEO · Twelfth Agency
Doug Madey Host, People are People podcast · Influ2

Key takeaways

ABM predates the term: Steve saw it 12-13 years ago at a Boston agency using the ITSMA definition of every account as a 'market of one,' with landing pages hand-built for every prospect — and old-school sales reps argue it's just good selling with a marketing label.
After being let go from DigitalOcean in October 2024, Steve gave himself 4 months to match his corporate salary or return to a W-2 job — he hit the goal on referral-led inbound from LinkedIn, but that growth eventually ran dry and forced him to actually market and sell.
His advice to new agency founders: do all the work yourself first and experience the hardest parts, and document the challenges as you go — a mistake he only fixed retroactively.
Howdy is a managed AI workflow that researches 'hobby signals' — personal interests outside work — across web search, social profiles, and transcripts, then pairs each prospect with a concierge experience the sales team delivers as a one-to-one ABM tactic.
Steve hired experiential and field marketers rather than SaaS marketers for Howdy, because human-in-the-loop judgment is needed to catch signals that are 'a little cringe' and rein in AI's overly wild experience ideas.

Chapters

Welcome back: Steve Armenti, the ABM guy
Discovering ABM at a Boston agency
ABM: new discipline or good sales renamed?
The entrepreneurial bug and leaving corporate
A four-month plan to replace the W-2
When referral-led growth runs dry
From California to Boulder, Colorado
Daily routines: walks, saunas, and flow time
Flexible work vs. top-down stress
Introducing Howdy: AI-powered concierge outreach
Hiring experiential marketers, not SaaS marketers
The ultimate experience for marketing to Steve

Q&A

What do you love about ABM, and how did you learn it?

At a Boston content and demand gen agency 12-13 years ago, a VP of marketing introduced ABM using the ITSMA 'market of one' definition — with no tech, they hired an offshore developer to hand-build a landing page for every prospect. It fit the big B2B brands he served, like HP, IBM, Samsung, Verizon, and Capital One.Steve Armenti

Did ABM start 13 years ago, or was it always happening and marketers just named it?

It was always happening — good account reps have long researched the person and company and pitched each as the most important client. Marketers gave it a name, and Steve concedes his sales friends have a point, but ABM is the right motion for expensive products with complex buying processes.Steve Armenti

Why did you leave the corporate world to start your own agency?

He'd had the entrepreneurial bug since consulting as '12th Street Digital' out of college. After leaving Google and being part of a riff at DigitalOcean, he felt the universe was telling him this was his window, so he went all-in in October 2024.Steve Armenti

Was there hesitation about going out on your own?

As an optimist and dreamer he leaned in, but made a deal with his analytical wife: if he couldn't get close to his corporate salary within 4 months, he'd go back to a W-2 job. The pressure motivated him, even through three months with no clients, inbound, or revenue.Steve Armenti

What's one thing that will certainly happen to anyone starting an agency?

Referral-led growth from your network will eventually run dry, and you'll have to actually go market, sell, and handle contracts and proposals yourself. It's a scary moment where self-negativity doesn't help — treat it as a hard problem to figure out.Steve Armenti

What is Howdy and how did it come to be?

Howdy is a managed AI workflow that runs deep research on lists of contacts to find personal 'hobby signals,' then a team pairs each person with a unique concierge experience — like booking a pro lesson and 18 holes for a golfer — that sales wraps its process around. Steve piloted it free with existing clients, saw strong results, and soft-launched about two months ago.Steve Armenti

What skill set does the Howdy team need?

People from experiential marketing, field marketing, and private events — not SaaS or growth marketers. Agents handle research and sourcing, but humans in the loop provide judgment to reject cringe signals and rein in AI's more extreme experience ideas.Steve Armenti

If someone marketed to you, what would the ultimate experience be?

His hobbies are fitness, sports, outdoors, and recently golf, but if breaking away for 3-4 hours he'd want a wellness-oriented, meditative recharge — maybe a float station and a massage.Steve Armenti

Quotes

I think you do have to have a healthy bit of that dreaming and a little bit of carelessness — you have to ignore logic in some sense.Steve Armenti
Do all the work yourself. Figure it all out, do all the hard stuff, be stressed out, experience the hardest parts of it, because you'll overcome that stuff and you'll learn so much through it.Steve Armenti
We're going to try to design a short moment for you that makes you feel seen. The whole goal of it is we want to deliver something that a friend would get you.Steve Armenti
At the end of the day what we're doing is connecting people to people, and that's kind of my mission for the company.Steve Armenti
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